Why Love Hurts

Hello My Internet Journal Online Readers

Have you ever thought about why love hurts? I'm not talking about the physical act of sex, or abusive relationships, whether they be physical, emotional, or verbal.

I am talking about those times in a relationship, where everything seems to be a battle. When you both get under each others nerves in the worse way. Those periods when it all seems like too much work, and you'd rather be alone (completely) during that time.

During those stressful times I have seriously thought about walking away. But then, I think start to perform my positive/negative mental weighing scale. And almost every time, the positives do outweigh the negative. And the few times that the negatives should have won, I remember the love.

So although when I ask "Why love hurts?", I'm not referring to actual abuse, the growing pains do hurt. But thankfully, it's not for long, and our love does become stronger because of it. One question though, if I never have to ask why love hurts anymore, is my relationship then perfected? Is that even possible? Anybody want to share their thoughts?

Until next time,

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